Dear Becky,
My friends and I all joined Diet-to-Go at the same time. I love the food but I must confess that I get frustrated watching my friends lose weight faster than me. We eat the same foods and exercise together, so what gives?
D.G, in Morgantown
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Dear D.G.,
Losing weight is not the same for everyone; some people lose faster than others due to a different personal history of weight, dieting, physiology, psychology, culture and genetics.
Ask yourself these eight important questions.
1. Am I eating enough?
Skipping meals and inadequate eating create more weight problems in the long run, by disrupting your metabolism and setting you up for overeating later.
2. Am I eating or drinking in excess?
Try to avoid excessive quantities and caloric beverages, such as juice, regular soda and alcohol. To start a weight loss plan, try to cut back gradually, making substitutions of lower calorie choices when needed.
3. Am I getting enough exercise without overdoing it?
If you have not exercised in awhile, start by adding a few minutes of walking daily. Gradually work up to 15-30 minutes per day.
4. Am I sleeping enough?
Lack of sleep can promote excess hunger and eating, and will result in weight gain.
5. Am I taking care of any psychological issues?
Weight gain can be related to hormonal imbalances. In some people it may also be associated with depression. Either of these may interfere with any efforts to lose weight and would best be helped by visiting a professional.
6. Are there any barriers that I face?
Learn the triggers that contribute to any weight problems you may have, so that you can gradually make some changes in them.
7. Are my goals realistic?
Consider whether your desired weight would really be a healthy weight for you. One option is to start gradually and aim for weight loss of about 5 to 6 pounds per month. Setting short-term goals that are accessible will help you to attain long-term goals.
8. Is this the right time to lose weight?
If you are too busy or preoccupied with other concerns, it may be hard to concentrate on weight loss. There is nothing wrong with maintaining your weight for awhile until you are ready.
Keep in mind a safe pace for weight loss is 1-2 pounds a week. The slower the weight comes off the more likely it is to stay off.